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rich_god

What do you have to lose ?


wheres_wally81

Danger Will Robinson! Play this one real careful.


axe122

How long do you talk with a girl on tinder before setting a date? If I match with them Sunday I try to set the date by Thursday. If I don’t meet her within 7 days I usually never meet her.(not saying I’ve never met with a girl past 7 days of talking) they typically get soooo many matches and messages ,it’s insane so if you don’t have plans and are asking them questions like your in an interview they will move on to someone else within 4 days usually.


pepinopocho

We tried to meet but she was busy or lied then her friend matched with me so i was wondering what should i do?


axe122

Girls are never to busy to meet with a guy they are excited to meet. Not to discourage you but maybe means no 90% if not more.


pepinopocho

Nah Bro people at my age has things to doo


axe122

That’s a rationalization your using to protect your ego. If they want to see you they will make it happen. I used to do the same thing when I was younger. But until I just accepted reality things didn’t get better. I’m not tryna discourage you I think you just say fuck it and go for it but don’t expect anything with the original girl unless you start flirting with the other ones. You can just pretend you didn’t know they were housemates and even if they are just be like you were to busy so I moved on. This may restart attraction in the first one or get you one of the new ones.


pepinopocho

Stop proyecting , people have things to do , if i ask her again and dont have time then its a lie.


axe122

I’m not projecting I’m being realistic. They are very easy to understand and predictable once you learn the way they do things and maybe or I’m busy with no offer of another date is a no.


pepinopocho

She didnt say no to other date , and i honestly dont care since she is from other city and having a girl that far is not cheap XD


axe122

So try with the friends and see what happens . Like I said I’m not tryna discourage you I hope you get one of these girls but if you accept that I’m to busy or maybe means no it gets easier to figure out how to reattact her or start from the beginning.


pepinopocho

I have been Hurt by Girls and Hurt Girls feelings all my life so im used to it (sometimes a girl is really into you but you arent and you have to say no to her) and what i mean by this is that i am experienced not that i like her.


axe122

They don’t wanna hurt your feelings, it’s okay you can just move on to a new one but the idea is don’t get wrapped up in a girl who tells you she’s busy cuz she’s saying no.


pepinopocho

You guys act like i like her or i have any feelings towards her wich i dont because i didnt have time yet.


axe122

That’s good then I know a lot of guys on here get super attatched before they are even dating or sleeping with the girl. If your not attatched to any outcome and don’t care just send one of the housemates a message and see what happens.


pepinopocho

The housemate is from my city and she is interested so its a better move for both.


axe122

How long did you wait before you asked her?


pepinopocho

A couple of days wich was a mistake i am asking for a date on the same day or the next day


Janimous

So much coping in this thread


Darukoaus

How so? {*Not trying to play devil's advocate. I am coming back to a formal seduction forum after several years of taking a hiatus from this kind of thing. I'm oblivious.*}


Darukoaus

Yes. If you fuck her friend/housemate, there may be some drama, but there also may be a lot of jealousy working in your favour. Notoriety is basically catnip for chicks. Especially sexual notoriety. **\[Obligatory disclaimer:\]** *CALIBRATED sexual notoriety is attractive. Don't go around exposing yourself in a trench coat or something weird. If you're "that man whore who keeps sleeping with her roommates" that pays dividends.*