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MistyyBread

I think people are generally assuming that if two amab people are close then they're in a relationship... Also this generally happens less as you grow older from what I heard. Don't cut your friend off just because of this. Friendships are valuable, and I hope they stop assuming things about you


Tripleafrog

Thanks. I hope that happens too. I’m not going to cut him off I’m just saying I don’t feel like I can hang out with him as much. Also ur comment came at the perfect time as I was just having an anxiety attack so thank you. Finally I hope ur right about it stopping as I get older. Again, thank you.


Tripleafrog

Ps. What does amab mean?


MistyyBread

Amab is short for assigned male at birth I hope you feel better now


GemSupker

Humans are assholes, I'm afraid. I'm sorry this is happening to you. People often use rumors of sexuality and relationships as a bullying tactic, it's just that on top of erasing your friendship, their erasing your identity and that of your friend as well, which makes it extra hurtful. All I feel I can say is this: Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. Nasty rumors don't have to be what shapes your identity. Try to exercise kindness wherever you can. It'll show your moral character and shame anyone who's speaking ill of you and your friend.