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thecourageofstars

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She sounds exactly like my mother. You're literally not giving her any input and she just goes on and on and on in that nasty tone, throwing in a couple of non-sensical idioms ("yer missin the forest fer the trees, *Kyle*" lol wtf?) and some vague threats about "one day". And of course the classic "you think x's family is so perfect? You don't even KNOW how good you have it!", and "I'm happy you have friends and other people you enjoy being around, I AM, but also I won't allow it because you're being a brat!" Also she straight up called you stupid. I bet if you brought that up to her the next day she wouldn't remember it. You gotta get out of that house as soon as you can. You may recognize that this is abuse but that doesn't make you immune to it. It's insanity and it will infect you in some way or another.


throwaway7299195

Yeah there’s no point saying anything because it’s talking to a wall, just counting down the days until I can leave


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Yeah, if you can't leave yet, grey-rocking is definitely the best way to get through this 👍🏻 Don't give her any ammunition. I'd continue to record this behavior as well.


summer-breeze-

Yuck. What a horrible person. Why do narcs think they can talk to their kids like that and then what? Expect us to "turn our lives around" because they told us what a piece of shit we are? Nah. Shes talking in circles because she doesnt even have a point to her conversation. Shes just trying to bring you down. Thats her point i guess. Fuck that. Im sorry you had to deal with that. More reason to wipe that toxic sludge off the bottoms of your shoes.


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I'm still waiting for the question she was going to ask him 🤔 Her brain sounds like a mess.


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ME TOO! "The question is (statement)" "No, actually, the question is (rant)


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Am I supposed to fill inn the NO RESPONSE to her rants with something? Because this lady keeps going as if OP is actually responding and I am confused as all hell. Even with nodding and stuff, this is batshit crazy-town. But, you know, she's tHe ViCtIm 🤣


Professional_Path397

“*You are stupid.*” Oof. I’m sorry, nobody deserves to be treated that way… not to mention the classic gaslighting about her being “psychotic”. Not okay.


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throwaway7299195

I’m really not sure, anyone who could influence me to think for myself I guess


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throwaway7299195

And by the way how are people still commenting I thought this got taken down (unfortunately)


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throwaway7299195

Oh well at least they didn’t close down the post


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My guess his "handlers" are the friends or family-of-friends she refers to a few times in her non-sensical rant. She seems to be very jealous of them.


mndrthrowaway

what mother talks like that to her child? who is the adult?


bby-brains

The mothers (and fathers) of almost everyone in this sub. My father would talk exactly like this. The similarity is uncanny.


SarahBear81

This is eerily like listening to my parents talk to me after I "acted out" as a kid.


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